Value Is ____________?

Lately I`ve been thinking what has a real value for me. What is there that I can rely to as something really valuable to me. I came to a conclusions, value is mortal, it`s delusional, it`s there when we think of it, it`s like a mirage. I know money have no value. No matter how much or how little you have it doesn`t guarantee you happiness or bring you sadness. It`s completely irrelevant and not dependent on it. So where can we find the real values in life? Are they the ones our grandfathers were fighting for? Love, peace and freedom, are they the principal values? Is the definition of each of them stayed the same throughout the centuries? Or did we manage to change them to suit our more modern needs, needs of the society dependent on getting rid of as much privacy as it can. Society who wants to be famous, with the least effort as it`s possible. Did we loose our reasons why? Are we still questioning things that we did question when we were young and stupid. Or are we going backwards in our minds, loosing interest in anything what`s not trivial, what`s not in the "OK!" magazine, what`s not in the news. Where did our values go? When did we loose them? Are we aware of loosing them, and do we want to get them back. Or is it all just a neverending change of mind? If yes, then what is the stability? I wish I could be able to control my mind, to set my mind in the way I want to, but on the other hand, we all live a change, life is changing every day, world is changing every second, and so do we, so do the values. Is there a hope of being yourself all the time, no matter what? Wouldn`t that be a rebellion against the universe? Should we just  let the flow take us, or should we find the way to be the flow. To swim the ocean we have to be able to lose the sigh of the sore and to not panic. But do we really need to swim the ocean?